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Hotel Diva

I recommend checking out the happy hour at the bar; it runs from 5 to 7 PM. You’ll get great deals on drinks that make the evening more fun and a bit easier on the wallet. Don't miss it!
One thing I noticed is that the staff are super friendly, but if you're shy about asking questions, just go for it. My advice is to ask them for local tips—they know all the good spots.
Hotel Union Square

My advice is to check out the happy hour at the hotel bar around 5 PM. It’s a great way to unwind and save some cash on drinks. I made new friends there.
I think you should take advantage of the hotel’s concierge services. They helped me book some fun and exciting local activities at a discount! I didn't realize they had such great connections.

I suggest booking your room in advance, especially during weekends, since the place gets busy and you might miss out on good rates. I got lucky, but I saw some people struggling to find a decent room last minute.
Stay and Play

I think bringing your own toys or gear is a smart move. The on-site options are cool, but sometimes they get rented out quickly, so having your own ensures you’re set.

I recommend booking your sessions in advance especially on weekends to avoid disappointment. It can get really busy and you don’t want to miss out on the experiences you’re excited about
Kensington Park Hotel

If you're new to the BDSM scene, chat with the staff; they're super friendly and can offer great advice on local events happening during your stay. I learned a lot from them!

grab breakfast at the nearby café instead of the hotel – it's cheaper and way tastier, trust me! i found a hidden gem just a few blocks away.
Den of Iniquity

If you’re unsure about the rules or customs, don’t hesitate to ask staff. They were super helpful when I had questions, and it made me feel way more comfortable.
Bar Sinister
I suggest getting there around 10 PM when the vibe really kicks in; earlier can be kinda dead. Trust me, you want to experience the energy

I recommend checking out their special events... I missed out on their theme nights and it sounded like loads of fun from the crowd... Don't make my mistake!

My advice is to arrive dressed to impress but also comfortable. I found myself switching shoes halfway through the night - so good footwear is a must.

If you can, bring cash! Some drinks are cheaper that way, and it saves you from those annoying transaction fees.
The Bullet

I recommend checking out the happy hour specials from 5-7 PM. You can get some great drinks at a fraction of the price! I saved so much money this way.

My advice is to take advantage of their themed nights. I stumbled upon the fetish night by chance, and it was such a unique experience! You never know what you might enjoy.
The Threshold

If you're new to the scene, try to arrive around 9 PM when the atmosphere starts heating up but before it gets too crowded. I found this sweet spot perfect for mingling without feeling rushed.
Sanctuary

i recommend checking their website for any special events or theme nights before you go; they had a great one while i was there! it made the experience way more fun.

My advice is to ask for a fucking great tour upon arrival; it really helped me understand the place and I got to meet some cool people too!
SF Citadel Club

If you're on a budget, look for after-work specials or discounts on weekdays. I saved a little cash by going on a Thursday instead of the weekend!

I recommend chatting with the staff before diving in; they're super friendly and can give you tips on what to try first if you're new! It helped me feel more comfortable.